Funny thing about back problems; everybody seems to have one. Whenever I tell somebody I’m recuperating from a back injury I get the usual, “don’t I know it, my back KILLS!”
In all fairness, I’m guilty of the same, whenever somebody tells me about their aching back I’m the first to chime in with “you don’t know the half of it!”
So, anyway, while my back continues to improve I’ve been keeping busy, I actually have no idea how I ever found time to work. I do have to do things more slowly and actually think before I move, or a big surprise is in store. I still can’t get used to being on half speed.
If nothing else I’ve learned some humility. As some of you may know, my wife is battling Multiple Sclerosis. Walking underwater with a limp is a good way to describe how she gets around, it really is quite difficult. Simple things I take for granted, such as rolling over in bed are a monumental task for her. While I’ve never taken her condition lightly, I never really understood the frustration of wanting to do something but being unable. That is the worst, waiting for somebody to help. I think I know a tenth of what she feels now.
So, that is my silver lining for today. Crummy silver lining, I know, but it’s all I’ve got.
I’d like to thank everybody who still stops by here, I really appreciate it. I know not much is happening, and there is a ton of other things to occupy your time, so THANK YOU! I think I’m an egomaniac, I actually get quite sad if nobody is paying attention to me.
Heal fast, good luck with this one.
Hey Mike. Stay strong and let yourself heal. I did not know your wife had MS. I hope that she faces each day head one and comes out ahead. And I hope that you are there to help her through everything
dont be sad….im sure you heal faster when you are happy….
Michael, I think we all suffer from a little egomania in the blogosphere! Nothing better than clicking in and seeing comments!
Even this bout of bad back with you has given over to a lesson you maybe needed at this time on empathy for your wife! Not saying you didn’t care, just a small jolt to put it back into perspective! Your wife is truly a saint, MS and YOU !!(Humor) Heal quickly, Providence needs you!
we pay attention,you just may not be aware of it. be careful and heal properly. ps your wife is beautiful.
Where are you from? Is it a secret?
Truden
Get well really soon and our very best to your wife Michael. It’s so tough watching a love one battle on with what seems to us on normal days an easy task. I’ve watched dear H start to get up – then not managing, making his way to sitting only to sink-back once again, and most times pretending all is well. His courage is amazing and I promise never to complain again about the trival in my life, but no doubt I will – human nature I suppose.
all best wishes to you and your dear wife.
Michael, I know its discouraging right now but hang in there! I, too, have been experiencing my own silver linings the last few months-won’t bore you with the details but as my mom always said it happens for a reason and we may never know that reason! Get well and strong! and just keep doing what you’re doing! I,personally, love your insight and wisdom into this insanity called EMS! especially since I’ve decided to join this insanity!
A little late in coming to the party – sorry… I understand back trouble, and I’ll admit willing that I have no clue about MS other than what I read, and I didn’t know your wife is dealing with it. Suffice it to say, though, that you both have incredible courage to be able to move forward as you do. And that you’re there makes you one of the good guys.